Life is constantly evolving. You experience new joys, face different challenges, and undergo various transitions. Among these transitions are major life events—marriages, births, deaths, divorces, property acquisitions, and others. With each of these events, it becomes necessary to review and potentially update your estate plan to ensure that your estate is distributed as you intend. Here’s a step-by-step guide to keep your estate plan current and aligned with your wishes.
1. Recognize the Triggering Events
First and foremost, you need to be aware of the events that might necessitate a change in your estate plan. Common triggers include:
- Marriage or remarriage
- Divorce or separation
- Birth or adoption of a child or grandchild
- Death of a named beneficiary
- Significant changes in your financial situation, such as buying or selling property
- Relocation to a different state or country
2. Consult with an Experienced and Qualified Estate Planning Attorney
Updating your estate plan isn’t just about scribbling new wishes on a piece of paper. For your changes to be legally binding and valid, you must follow legal protocols. An estate planning attorney can help guide you through the specifics, ensuring your intentions are captured correctly and legally.
3. Decide Whether to Amend or Create a New estate plan
There are two primary ways to modify a will or trust:
- Create a trust amendment or will “codicil”, which is an amendment of an existing will. This approach is suitable for minor changes.
- Draft a completely new will or trust which often becomes necessary with more substantial alterations or if multiple changes have accumulated over time. By restating an existing trust, you do not have to retitle all of your assets.
An experinced and qualified estate planning attorney can advise on which approach is best based on your specific circumstances.
4. Be Clear and Specific
Ambiguities in an estate plan can lead to disputes among beneficiaries. Be as clear and specific as possible in outlining your wishes. Who gets what? Are there conditions attached? When it comes to legacies and inheritances, clarity is paramount.
5. Execute Property
For a will or codicil to be valid, it typically needs to be signed in the presence of at least two witnesses, who must also sign it. Ensure your witnesses are not beneficiaries or named executors in the will, as this could invalidate their status. Trusts and powers of attorney typically need to be signed before a notary public.
6. Store in a Safe Place and Inform Relevant Parties
Once updated, keep your estate planning documents in a safe, accessible place and let trusted individuals (like your executor) know of its location. It’s also a good idea to provide copies to relevant parties, ensuring your final wishes are known and respected.
Life is unpredictable. But by regularly updating your estate plan after major life events, you can gain some control over the future, ensuring that your legacy is preserved as you envision.
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